BUILD YOUR DREAM LIFE
If one day you realised that for a while you are confused, you are bored, you are unhappy; you don’t know what to do with yourself and you have enough of feeling this way. You have enough of complaining about everything. Plus you look around and think that you have everything to be satisfied, so what’s wrong? Something is missing; something must be missing to feel stressed and frustrated. So you look for a new job, a new flat, more parties, you meet your friends, you get a cat or you do more sport; you are simply trying to keep yourself busy. If that’s your situation, I know exactly what you are going through. Here is my story.
So if you are pulling your hair out, you have enough of all this non sense, you have everything to be happy but you are not, here are some questions you may ask yourself.
Once you have answered these questions, listed the things that are important for you and your life, dealt with your fears, you will feel much better. At least I was.
Still scared? It’s normal. Build confidence. Look at all your achievements and tick the ones you thought you would never be able to realise. I listed mine, do it and you’ll be surprised. Connect with people who took the risks and did that thing that you want to do. Share your dream with people and get in touch with friends of friends. Ask the right questions and make it happen.
You know it is the right thing to do, now fight your fear and live your dream. You have many options to realise your dreams. If you need money you can stay at work and build your project in your own time, or you can stay at work to save more money, you can give up all our little habits that are expensive. For instance, bike or walk instead of using the tube. Stop going to the cinema and watch movies on streaming. You can also sell your stuff. Do you really need everything you own? You can tutor or teach languages to make extra money. You can make a loan or apply for a grant if you want to go back to Uni. Here are ways to save money.
No more excuse, now do it! Book your flight, register to Uni year and pay your fees, register to that course…Once you have started you will actually be thinking “Why didn’t I not do that earlier? Why did I wait so long to start being happy and do what I love?” Here is how I got ready for my trip.